Hurry up in marriages:
According to the religion of Allah, marriage in Islam is not as difficult as it has been made. Today our desires and expectations have increased so much that we do not want to compromise on any issue anywhere.
Whether it is the form of a boy or a girl, his qualifications, his income or his family means family.
The boy should not be less than a family hero, not more than 25 years old and earn enough money.
If a girl wants to be a maiden, her qualifications should not be less than that of a doctor or an engineer.
On the other hand, the conditions of the world have reached here
Today's obscenity is at its height. Adultery has become common. Not only real but also eyes, ears, hands and the parents of today's age who have made it common for their youth in search of the best. He brought the children to the point where today they have to make their girlfriends boyfriends.
We have no concept of it in our religion and our Islamic society does not allow us to do that.
Today our children are receiving co-education.
We did not impose any restrictions on them. We did not give them the knowledge of religion, fear of Allah and piety, so what should they do?
Even if some parents realize this need of their children at the beginning, they are content with their engagement.
While
There is no concept of engagement in Islam. Then why do we become carefree by engaging children and push them towards an illegitimate relationship?
One of the major reasons for the increasing age of marriage of children today is the engagements which are broken up after two, two to five, five years. The reasons may be many but it is not possible to mention them yet.
The result is that the age of marriage passes and the demand increases. Because just as your children should eat to satisfy their hunger, so they need this pure relationship to satisfy their emotions. Which we would not have given them for no reason. The result is what we see today.
When Allah has ordained sustenance for a woman, then whatever you do, your children will get what is in their destiny.
On the other hand, another big problem in our society is that we do not want to adopt people who have had someone in their life before. On the one hand, the age of marriage of girls is passing and on the other hand, He is not ready to get married in any case. No matter how much this man needs, he can commit zina but not another marriage.
In this society, a divorced, widowed, runway or two or three married people have the same right to live with their heads held high as a well-to-do married man or a single young man.
The simple principle of relinquishing this responsibility is in the Shari'ah that before establishing a relationship, do Istikharah well, do a thorough investigation, trust Allah, settle the matter here, get married and send it here.
Believe that your child has grown up many years ago.
As for earning money, he who can bear the expenses of his girlfriend will surely bear the expenses of his wife as well. Please make marriage normal and stop adultery.
Here children are adults, here they are introduced to their joints. Even if the age is only 15 years. Especially for a girl.
In the West, when 11, 12 year olds can deal with live together, then why bother to practice our religion.
Think, God think and then think
Get yourself out of this sentence of what people will say. Society is made of people's actions. And this is what people want. You just can't dare. If you dare, people will join you.
May God bless all our children.
Amen that meeting is the same as being is what Allah has written in their books.
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